The time between adulthood and childhood is full of changes – both physical and emotional. With hormones raging, teenagers often find it difficult to be ‘social’ people. Temper tantrums, sulking, ignoring parents – all these are standard teenage behavior. Most teenagers feel that others ‘just don’t get it’. Being […]

Parents-Teenagers and Conflicts

This famous hymn was written by a Chicago lawyer,  Horatio G. Spafford after several traumatic events in his life.  You might think to write a worship song titled, ‘It is well with my soul’, you would indeed have to be a rich, successfulChicago lawyer.  But the words, “When sorrows like sea […]

Can you say: It is well with my soul?

20 Habits of Strong Marriages About half of all marriages in the United States end in divorce. Those statistics represent Christian marriages as well as others. It is obvious that many people do not get married with the intentions of living “happily ever after.” But with hard work and dedication, […]

20 Habits of Strong Marriages

Lets first look at what it is not. Trust is NOT leaving church to go out and find a boyfriend or girlfriend and then dragging them to church and “trust” God to work out all the rest of the details! Trust is NOT being diagnosed with an illness and never […]

What Does Trust Look Like?

  What is Temperament? Temperament is the set of traits that makes you unique. Temperament explains why you interact the way you do with those around you. It explains how you handle stress, make decisions, and what motivates you. Why Explore Temperament? Temperament Counseling is for the good times as […]

Temperament Counseling

It was Hippocrates, five centuries before Christ, who is thought to have turned the basic theory of temperament into a medical theory so the names of the four temperaments actually stem from various internal fluids around the liver, heart, lungs and kidneys. The temperaments are a key to unlocking the […]

Who are You?

Once married always married? Should be. But unfortunately sneaky little things can come in and corrupt a good marriage. Our job is to stay alert. We must build hedges of protection around our marriages!  We must stop any notions of stepping outside of marriage the moment the thought creeps inside […]

Warning Signs: How can an affair happen?

Do you need proof to believe that our brains and our hearts have been hardwired to focus on God? Read on… “Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you. Before you were born, I set you apart for my holy purpose. Jeremiah 1:5 For you formed my inward […]

Hardwired by God
The word “habit” comes from a Latin word which means to “hold” or “live in”. A habit is some way of acting, which because of repetition becomes a normal part of our lives. All of us have habits, all kinds of habits.  nail biting, knuckle cracking, clicking your nails, chronic […]


you have…One More Option!   Opportunity—a favorable time or occasion when we are in a position to make a decision that could forever impact our lives. Mark 5 A certain woman who had an issue of blood twelve years, 26 and had suffered many things under many physicians, and had spent […]

You have One More Option!

I am determined. The first half of my life has whizzed by. Memories. Scars. Callouses. Age spots. And wrinkles… Have accompanied me thus far. Something in my spirit is almost demanding me to slow things down. So many little things are available to us to enjoy but we can get so […]

Life: doesnt have to be complicated

I get annoyed with two kinds of preaching. One is prosperity preaching… The other is “The Power of Positive Thinking” The scriptures never teach that giving is the only thing a Christian should do. We must have works. We must be hearers of the Word and Doers of the Word. […]

Where the mind goes-the man follows!